Doing Life in Lavender

Hi again! Today I wanted to share with you just a bit about how my family has managed my epilepsy. I'm really fortunate in that my experience of family and epilepsy has been a really positive one and I know that isn't always the case. With that in mind, I just wanted to give a disclaimer that I am only talking from my own personal experience. I am incredibly blessed that God gave me a really supportive family. Both my parents, my two older brothers and more extended family have been amazing in helping me accomplish anything I choose and encouraging me. This is probably largely due to my parents, deciding when I was diagnosed that my epilepsy would never hold us back from anything we wanted to do as a family and I think this decision shaped me significantly. Helped along by my mum's nursing background and sheer determination, there was always an answer for everything. Things might need to be adjusted along the way, but she can figure out a way to make just about anything saf...

Hello again! Today I'm talking about something really personal. Unfortunately, it's something that I think doesn't have enough recognition and so I think it's really important to raise awareness of it: that’s epilepsy and anxiety. Epilepsy can have a big impact on mental health, whether it’s your epilepsy or you have a family member with epilepsy. As I grew up and learned to deal with my epilepsy, the impact on my mental wellbeing was something that I never even really considered. At least not until suddenly, out of nowhere, it's something that I was dealing with. My epilepsy has always been on a general upwards trajectory even if there have been dips here and there. Adjustments to my medications have meant that overall, my epilepsy has gradually improved over the years. However, it was only after the worst dip my epilepsy has ever had that anxiety came crashing into my life. My seizures went from clusters every six to seven weeks to every day, maybe every oth...

Hi again! The support from my last two blogs was overwhelming and I just wanted to say a massive thank you to everyone who took the time to read them! Today I wanted to talk about my personal experience dealing with misconceptions and myths surrounding epilepsy. However, if anyone would be interested in a blog where I actually go through some commonly held misconceptions and myths, tell me in comments or drop me a message and I’ll try my hand at myth busting blog style in the future. There will always be people who make assumptions about epilepsy, and think they know everything they need to know. I know this isn’t everyone, but unfortunately it happens a lot. Thankfully most people are willing to listen.   I am so grateful for my Primary school who listened and worked with me and my family and never showed any kind of preconception when I arrived. The kids were great and just got used to me seizing in the playground, in class, and sometimes (embarrassingly) in assembly. Th...